You get the girl by being masculine. But you keep her by being in touch with your heart (the soft feminine side in every man).
Masculinity is communicated by many different things….muscles, beard, tattoos, being rude, height, body posture, deep voice, specific haircuts, territorial behaviour, aggressive behaviour, dominant behaviour, mysterious behaviou/decorum and the list goes on.
Femininity is communicated through giving, caring, being nurturing, affectionate behaviour, affectionate words, gentle tone of voice, encouraging words, being there, being open, being vulnerable with. And the list goes on.
Masculinity and femininity are energy, one is hard energy, the other is soft energy.
You get a girl to be attracted to you by showing hard energy but you get her to fall for you by showing soft energy. It’s ok to tell her she’s beautiful. After she’s attracted to you. To tell her she’s beautiful before attraction is present, is basically saying “my genes are not worthy of being reproduced through your body, so I’m making up for the unworthiness of my genes by being feminine in hopes you’ll like me and overlook that minor unworthiness of my genes”. The female mating-mind doesn’t read niceness as a strength it reads it as a behaviour caused by the presence of estrogen. It favours testosterone and therefore causes her to feel attraction for men who signal testosterone. During sex, sperm cells don’t compete for her one egg by seeing who is the nicest friendliest sperm, no they fight, it’s a competition of aggression! Even at that microscopic level, and because all truth are parallel, what works at the tiny level will work at the bigger level of human interactions. If you look at the make up of an atom, it’s the same design of the universe. The way our genital behaves to gain sexual favour from her female genitalia is the same approach that works in a conversation to create sexual tension and consequently attraction; we harden she softens and goes mooshy, we soften she hardens and goes dry!
Is crying in front of a woman sexually attractive?
Well, when your manhood is erect, does it release water from the sides? No, it is dry, well…on a behavioural level that’s what will be sexually attractive to a woman…a guy who doesn’t cry. If you did cry, do you know what part of her you would access?
Behaviour like saying how you feel, crying, being nice, buying her stuff etc They are feminine energy communicators (estrogen communicators), when perceived by her they trigger her tender side (which has nothing to do with sexual attraction but everything to do with feelings). When a women says a guy is nice it doesn’t mean she’s attracted to him, when she says he’s annoying, it’s likely she’s attracted to him. Women have had sex with me and told me they don’t have any feelings for me. Even though they are attracted to me. Why? Well, because I didn’t communicate any feminine energy and therefore did not trigger their tender side. (Which I should have done after creating attraction. Attraction triggers their sexual side
We human beings have automated responses, so do animals.
A bird will respond to the chirping sound of her chick by gathering them under her wings, an experiment was done where a stuffed animal (made in the likeness of the prey of this particular bird) had a device inserted inside it which emitted the chirping sound of that particular birds chicks, when the mother bird heard that chirp guess what she did irrespective of the stuffed animals appearance, she tried to climb on top of it and nurture it like she would one of her chicks! Same principle is true for women, their affectionate behaviour or sexual behaviour are automated responses and therefore it’s not a choice she makes, it’s a response to a particular set of signals communicated to her by the man. That’s why they say things like “I can’t help how I feel, I just don’t love him anymore” or “I can’t help how I feel, I want him” . This apparent decision is no decision but rather a response. And its not hinged on looks or money. In any case, Tender traits displayed by you will trigger a woman’s tender side (doing it before you create attraction will get you friend zoned, doing it after attraction has been created will make her have feelings for you).
Tender traits (aka feminine traits) include smiling, being nice, being complimentary, feeding her, buying her things, affectionate gestures like kissing, hand holding, giving flowers, being open, spending time with, cuddling etc
Think of what a good mother would do, those are tender traits.
Any of these can trigger tender feelings in her. But remember, do it AFTER you’ve first demonstrated masculinity, not BEFORE!